Today, an “old school letter” written by John Nerges about his transition experience at college, after 3o years of military service.
It’s traditional only in that it was a hand written response to a conversation on the process of change. It’s up to speed and ‘uber now’ as it was delivered via email after a chat on social media and as a result of Rose Nerges‘posted a guest web blog entry on Military Success Network.
Now, a lifetime of experience for one man, in one field, is in transition to new areas. New or simply without the opportunity before? You decide as Col. (Ret.) John Nerges shares his experience…. in his own words……
I am reading The Prince by Machiavelli. This is fabulous. My whole career has been dedicated to science. Literature didn’t do much for my patients at the time I was caring for them. Yet, it is all so familiar to me. You know, he dedicates a paragraph to Army Life.
I’ve gone back to school after 30 years in the Army, where I served first as a medic and then as a critical care nurse.
I lost my way in 2003-2004 caring for incredibly wounded casualties of war both in Iraq and in Washington DC. I never really found it again and retired last August.
Turns out it was my inspiration…to go back to school and restore my humanity that I lost in bloody bandages and morgue trips. This time, I would only study things I didn’t already know.
Every ’50 something’ person I used to work with said what I am doing has been their dream. That surprised me. Everybody, and I don’t use that word lightly, said it was a good idea to back to school
Now I study music, literature and art. I am a 51-year-old freshman. Trust me, it’s harder than it looks but the pay-off is huge. Plus, I have great stories to tell and telling them sort of heals me. It also keeps me humble and I really need that.
Did I mention that it’s harder than it looks? Rose talked to me about leaving the big cheese role and becoming a beginner. It’s harder than it looks, scarier than I imagined so the pay off should be big.
There is a practical, every day, consideration too. The Military is like a herd. When you stay in the herd, it’s safer. You have less of a chance of getting picked off.
Medicine even has a term for it; “Herd Immunity.” Choosing to leave the herd, after 2,3, 5 or 30 years is a tough decision. Choosing to leave voluntarily is crazy, horrifying at times.
But I like school and I like reading a book with a teacher to explain. I like doing things I would not choose on my own.
Like reading The Prince.
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